An experiential practice space for men who want to become more conscious, connected, and skillful in relationship.
The Relational Laboratory is a private space for men to explore how they relate, connect, communicate, desire, and show up with others — not simply by talking about relationships, but by bringing relational patterns into practice in real time.
Together, we explore what happens in the space between you and another person: attraction, intimacy, vulnerability, uncertainty, boundaries, desire, communication, conflict, and connection. Through embodied practice, relational exploration, reflection, and honest feedback, you develop greater awareness and choice in how you relate.
This work can be especially valuable for men navigating dating, intimacy, partnership, or recurring relational patterns. Rather than offering a formula for how to date, the laboratory helps you develop the capacity to stay connected to yourself while connecting with someone else.
The work is customized around your intentions and goals. What you are experiencing in your actual dating and relationship life becomes the material we can work with — creating a space to experiment, receive feedback, practice new ways of relating, and build skills you can bring into your relationships outside the laboratory.
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"Alexis has a rare ability to see what’s really going on with you without making you feel like there’s anything wrong with you.
I’ve had plenty of experiences where someone tells me what I should be doing or where I need to grow. Working with Alexis feels completely different. She creates enough safety that I actually want to look at the things I normally avoid.
She has a way of challenging you without pushing you, and of being incredibly compassionate without letting you hide. There’s a real combination of warmth, honesty, intuition, and depth in the way she works.
I’ve walked away from our time together feeling more connected to myself, clearer about what I want, and more willing to show up as the man I actually want to be."
- Austin A., Former Customer
“I came to Alexis because I was tired of repeating the same patterns in my relationships. I could understand a lot of them intellectually, but that wasn’t translating into different experiences with women.
What makes working with Alexis different is that she doesn’t just talk about relationships with you
she gives you an opportunity to actually experience yourself differently in relationship.
She helped me notice the subtle ways I was pulling away, trying to control an outcome, or disconnecting from what I was actually feeling. And she could reflect those things back to me in a way that felt honest without ever feeling shaming.
The work was uncomfortable at times, but in the best possible way. I became much more aware of how I show up, what I communicate without realizing it, and what it actually means to stay present when things get vulnerable.
I left with more confidence, but not the performative kind. I felt more grounded in myself and much more capable of creating the kind of connection I’d been saying I wanted.”
Anonymous Client